The gay dating app situation in Switzerland is... sad! / La situation des applications de rencontres gay en Suisse c'est... triste!

The gay dating app situation in Switzerland is...

#sad!


    Perhaps it is not known in the hetero world out there how dismal the gay dating situation is in Switzerland. I have been around the world. In no country where gay sex is fully legal have I seen such a mess of blank profiles. 


    Everyone in Switzerland is "on the down low." I am not bashing people who just want sex. Go for it. But could you learn to say hello and post a picture and a stat or two? And what about people who have to hide because coming out wouldn't be safe for them... That is precisely the problem with Switzerland!! People don't feel safe to be out... in this "liberal democracy..." That is what is SAD.


    But, a Picture Tells a thousand words... And a moving-picture probably a million. Take a look at the two videos. The first is an English and the second is in French.



And what about you Jeremy, what about your profile?  Gurl please, I'm miles ahead of y'all...

La situation des app gay en Suisse c'est... 

#triste!

    Ce n'est pas connu dans le monde et héros à quel point la situation de gay dating en suisse est désastreuse.. J'ai fait le tour du monde. Dans aucun pays où le sexe gay est totalement légal, je n'ai vu un tel désordre de profils vierges. 


    Tout le monde en Suisse est "on the down low" (dans le placard). Je ne dénigre pas les gens qui veulent juste du sexe. Fonce. Mais pourriez-vous apprendre à dire bonjour et à publier une photo et une statistique ou deux? Et que dire des gens qui doivent se cacher parce que sortir ne serait pas sans danger pour eux ... C'est précisément le problème avec la Suisse !! Les gens ne se sentent pas en sécurité d'être ouverts... dans cette "démocratie libérale..." C'est ce qui est triste.


    Mais, une image dit mille mots... Et une image animée probablement un million. Jetez un œil aux deux vidéos. La première vidéo est en anglais et la seconde est en français.


 
Et toi Jeremy, qu'en est-il de ton profil? Mec s't'plaît, j'ai des kilomètres d'avance sur toi ...



 

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  1. ElaineFebruary 15, 2021 at 7:22 AM

    :( and I thought hetero dating was bad...sorry this is the situation in Switzerland. It seems shady and dangerous not to have a picture or very little info.. :( I’ve always struggled with dating apps...I really hate dating in general. It sucks.

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    1. JeremyFebruary 16, 2021 at 1:35 PM

      Right?

      This is the text in my profile and I don't think it's unreasonable:

      CLEAR FACE PHOTO!
      ♥️: ✈️, history, 茶, travel, nuclear bomb tests, ⛱️, 🐯, making art, film, music
      SEEK: friend, bf, date
      PREFER: 亞洲人, คนไทย, 한국인, 日本人, پارسیان, العرب
      AGE: 18~45
      🚫: DANGEROUS, DRUGS, DIRTY, RUDE

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